I have been in a relationship with this man for almost two years. The relationship is tending towards marriage. I love my fiance,he is funny,hard working,God fearing and kind.
The only problem I have is that this guy has a habit of borrowing. I was raised to be okay with what ever I have,I dont like to borrow. My fiance can borrow from me,his friends,colleagues,church members ..I tire o.
He tries to pay back sometimes when he borrows but I would rather he does not. I have also tried to tell him that this makes me uncomfortable and he says its not an issue that even rich people borrow.
Ma,this concern of mine is making me think that going ahead to marry this man might make me miserable in marriage.
My greatest fear is that he may borrow and not be able to pay. Or that people will be laughing at us when he borrows all the time. For example, four months ago,he borrowed some money from my cousin who lives with us. He borrowed fifteen thousand naira from the poor boy who is a youth corper,promised to pay by the end of the month. He didnt pay until four months later. It took alot of text message reminding. I was really ashamed.
What should I do ma?