Good Day Admin,
I got this number from lively stones and relationship group on Facebook. Please I will like you to give me an advice on this.
I’m dating this guy for a while now and both his parents want me to marry their son. But the problem is my mom advised me to stop going out with him with the reason that his family is not a good one.
My mom said they engage in spiritual things and also, they don’t care for women.We are from the same place so my mom knew them very well. Their males always marry 2 or more.
Even if I want to break up with him, I just don’t know how to do it. Cos, everything I tried failed. He always comes back his love is even new fresh. He was even asking me to marry him this year.I’m just confused
We all have skeletons in our cupboards but what if what my mom is saying is true?? I don’t want to disobey my mom because I know she just want the best for me neither do I want to let go of this guy.
I once told him in a calm way one day that I might not marry him in the future but I realized he will get pissed for sometime then it’s as if his love is even renewed for me.
When I asked him about what my mom said,if he will treat me like his uncles,He said he will not but what if he changes in future.He said I should forget about what my mom said that she just wants the best for me and my mom always reminds me of that.
But His father and all his uncles married at least 2 wives.
My biggest problem is I dont want to disobey my mom neither do I want to let him go.
He can even call every hour, calling me pet names and love texts and all sort of things. I’m really confused and I don’t know what to do…
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