I am a single mother of two children. I have been on my own for the last eight years. I got involved with a man who married me traditionally,he went abroad and since then,I didnt hear from him anymore. I heard he got married to a lady abroad so his people came to my people to say that they are no longer interested in marrying. My parents returned the ride price. That was eight years ago.
Ever since,I have been in and out of relationship. None of them really worked out . I think men are scared of responsibility when they consider that I have two children. I must confess,its not been easy though. Financially, its been tough but I have been trying my best as a caterer. I had to move houses last year,I got a two bedroom apartment for the cost of N350k. I didn’t have all the money but the landlord told me to bring whatever I had that he would take it but I have to please him for helping me. I was happy. By pleasing him,you know,he meant sleeping with him. I did that ,I thought it was just one off. I am ashamed but I didnt have a choice.
Later on,after moving in,I found out that my landlord is separated from his wife and children. The children come to visit him once in a while though. So,my landlord and I have been together. He says I can stay in the apartment as long as I like that he will not collect money from me again.
The issue now is,his separated wife is trying to come back. I feel somehow saying this but I am in love with my landlord. I dont think I want him back with his wife. The decision belongs to him though but I have been praying that this man would choose me over the woman. But from his body language,it seems like he wants her back. The woman came in last weekend and spent the weekend with him. I was filled with jealousy. Well,I thought it was over but right after she left,this man came again to meet me for two rounds of s*x. He says he doesnt want her and I know he loves me too. But she is still trying to come back .
The woman left him for another man when things were rough for him and now is trying to come back,I dont think she deserves him,He clearly still wants me and I do really want him.How can I make him choose me over her.?