The Story below is a follow up from yesterday’s post. If you missed the post ,click here. This dear young lady is asking for further advise. Kindly drop your opinion on the matter.
I read all the responses from our members today. I just want to thank you ma and everyone for your advice. Yes, I was really angry but reading all your responses, I am calm now.
To be honest,I did not think that I can ask my husband to ask his brother to share a room with him or my mother. I told my mother and she has no problem with it. My husband too says he will tell his brother the situation of things.
Ma,I am glad I have people like you to advise me because I was actually quite surprised at my husband’s sudden take that his family has more right to our home than my family. You know,we hear stories of inlaws trying to come into the home and make the wife like second class.
I truly hope my husband is not like that. Yes,I am going to seek peace in my marriage but do you think I should ask him to retract that statement? I do not want that kind of statement ever again. You said something yesterday: everyone is important but my marriage and peace is more important.
How do I go about talking to him about this…or should I just ignore that statement? What if he truly believes that. Today,its his brother….tomorrow might be his mother or father…I want to talk to him about it but I also want to know how to say it so it does not result to another quarrel.
Please advise me…
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