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Good morning Ma
I was the lady that reached out to you about accommodation issues with fiance last week. Thank you so much for the advise. However, there is another issue now based on accommodation
I did my findings and the feedback I got is that we can get a two bedroom at Alapere (total package) for 700k.I suggested to him that we should get a two bedroom flat at Alapere which is still affordable n that I have 350..k with me.
So he should try and raise 350k as well. We can stay there for 9-12months and move to a location of our choice. He told me he can never live in Alapere and that why would I ever suggest that we live there. He also said that when I decided to leave the island, why did I move to gbagada and not Alapere and that I should never suggest that to him ever again
I’ve lived on d island all my life and moved to gbagada 5 months ago because my office is now on the mainland . I always tell him that the only place I can live on the mainland is gbagada but when he told me his place of choice is Maryland or Anthony, I had to agree.
I believe I have compromised enough. He is not the only one going to live in Alapere. We are going there together . I think its selfish for him at this point to say he cant live where he is.
His rent at his small mini flat is due in April or may. Instead of renewing the rent, let us put funds together and get a better place that is still affordable, he isnt seeing things from my point of view
At this point in fed up and he is pushing me to the wall. I’m not happy at all.Is my suggestion not good enough or am I still being inconsiderate