Please what do you think? Help me ask the house too. So,my fiance and I have been together for almost three years. He actually engaged me like three months ago. Everything is going fine. Our plan is to have the wedding by last quarter of the year.\
My fiance is very good to me. He is quite handsome too. I see how ladies stare at him when we are together. When we got engaged,we both agreed to open a joint account so we can save for our wedding and our marriage in future. Since we opened the account,he has put like N90k in the account while I have out like 430k.
Well,I actually earn higher than him and he has obligations in his family and aged parents. He sends money to them every month while I do not as my family is ok financially. A month ago,he asked for my permission to withdraw the sum of 200k from the account. He needed to help his parents pay house rent. He promised to return it.
A week ago. My best friend Talia calls me to say she has something to tell me. That my fiance has been trying to get her to sleep with him and that he even gave her 100k as advance if she did. I was shocked. She said he has been on her for over seven months. I asked her why she did not tell me,she said because she did not want me to be heart broken.
That she thought after getting engaged, that he would stop pestering her but he continued. I could not believe what my friend was telling me. I confronted him that evening and he said that it was my friend that was coming after him. long story short,she was flirting with him but he did not want to engage her.
That she began to be suicidal and threatened to kill herself if he did not sleep with her. So,he begged her to ask anything except sex,so she agreed to 500k. He agreed to give her 300k but later on,decided not to anymore in order not to look desperate or guilty,so he sent her only 100k. Part of the money her borrowed from me to help pay his parents rent.
I really did not expect any of these drama from my best friend and my fiance. I did not know who to believe. It was she said,he said. But both of them kept whatever was happening from me. I never felt so betrayed in my life. I asked for text messages or anything to show proof and both of them said they made never texted,just spoke face to face.
Something is fishy and it makes me doubt my fiance.My fiance says my best friend wants to destroy my happiness. Is this true? I have known my bestie for over 17 years of my life. At least,she was the first to open up to me…I know she can be crazy:she has a bubbly personality but I never ever saw her as a fiance snatcher.
I told my elder sister…she told my brother. They both agree that the my best friend is the person to believe.That she will not be telling lies cos we have known each other for many years. I broke up with my fiance. I have been crying like a baby. I feel lost cos I truly love him. But my fiance insists that my best friend is deceiving me ,that she is truly a bad person.
He came to my place yesterday saying he is ready to swear or take a lie detector test to prove he is telling the truth. Mind you,I am a christian and cannot swear. As for lie detector test,where do I get that from? Is he really telling the truth? Should I forgive him and give him a second chance? I love him but I am also worried about him.
Please advise me.
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