I think am in deep shit…where I work..we do go for training.This story is long..please don’t mind my typo-error and please bear with me.
It a big company and it has subsidiaries where by we all have a training academy.. I met a guy there, and we both married, I am married with 3 kids and he is yet to have any children.
We became friends recently and he started coming close to me of which I made him realized we gonna be just platonic friends no hidden agenda of which my hubby is also aware and most of my in-laws.
I wanted to make him a family friend, after a while, I noticed he started coming closer, giving me seductive glances, he chats me in the night and I always caution him..right from time.I always make sure am plain with him but he shows unnecessary attention and when I noticed its becoming too much, I tried drawing back
I am always urging him to spend time with his wife but seems he’s trying to find solace with me which am not comfortable with.
Now this is where I need advice my people….his wife called me this afternoon and was pleading with me to please let her hubby be…that their marriage is still very young and I shouldn’t let him know she called me. And I explained to her that I don’t have anything with her hubby, that its just plain, no hidden agenda, no intimacy whatsoever
She now pleaded with me to help her talk to him because I wanted to block him and warn him never to call,message nor chat me again but she said I shouldn’t do that because he would know she has contacted me.
I eventually blocked him and he found out it was because of his wife. Now he has threatened to leave home because of that. The wife has been begging me to beg her husband.
I am very angry right now and I think its all my fault because in d first place…I shouldn’t have indulged him. I felt we just friends but I think in dis guy’s mind, we are something else, please how can I go about this.
Please ma/sirs, your advice and opinion is needed, I don’t want to break a marriage..help me.
Lesedi (not real name)
Johannesburg, South Africa
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