Good day ma’am,
A friend of mine is dating a divorcee with two children. The man has been divorced since 2013. They met last year and everything has been going fine. Even the man’s children,9 and 6 love her very much. They have started making wedding plans but there is a serious issue that is making my friend have second thoughts about the marriage.
The thing is,the man’s ex wife is threatening her both physically and spiritually. My friend never met the ex wife until they announced their engagement about six months ago. Ever since then,the ex wife sent threatening texts to her warning her to stay away from the man. The text even says that if she marries him,that she will become an imbecile.
Initially,she dismissed these threats as that from a jealous ex wife but it became incessant that they had to go and report the lady to the police. Now,the lady has ceased sending sms but she now goes around spreading stories to my friends and family members to warn their daughter to stay away. Now,my friend’s family have become paranoid.
Her fiance has been trying to calm her down saying that his ex is a crazy woman,that is why they had problems and eventually got divorced. But some of this ex wife’s text is saying that this man is evil and that anyone who marries him should beware.
The spiritual angle now is that,my friend is now having nightmares about this ex wife. She sees her in her dreams chasing her with knife and threatening her. Their wedding is next weekend but she is so scared of going ahead. She has been praying,even her church people are praying with her but she is still not ok.
One woman in her church actually saw a vision that she would marry this man but that her marriage will be filled with difficulties. Ma,I know you are a woman of faith…do you think this marriage is worth going into,knowing that there is a possibility that she will eb fighting spiritual battles all through?
Please share on the platform,I really want a robust conversation on this matter to help my friend make a decision to either go ahead or stop. Is this ex wife a real threat or just a crazy woman?
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