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Is My Wife Having An Affair With Her Step Brother?

Dear Admin,

My wife of two years has a step brother, Oyin that I am not comfortable with. In fact,I am 80% sure that he is not just a brother to her.

During my meeting and courting of my wife,she made me know that she and Oyin are very close. Infact,they are called twins in their family. This guy is about 29,my wife is 27. They call each other every day. They confide in each other. Most times,when we have an argument,hes the one that my wife confides in.

When we got married,he started to visit us often. Sometimes he stays for the weekend. I was cool with that but I just wished I had the same relationship that my wife has with her step brother. They were really tight. One time,he bought her some very s*xy lingerie. I was really jealous but my wife laughed it off.My business makes me travel all the time and I am sometimes grateful that Oyin is around when I am not,we even call him to come so my wife wont be lonely when I am not around. How stupid I was!

A few days ago,I traveled out of town for business. I was supposed to be gone for two days. I got to my business location and things changed hence,I had to leave early morning the next day. As I was about to board my flight,I called my wife but her line was switched off. I called Oyin,his too was switched off. When I landed,I called but their lines were still off. So I took a taxi and went home myself.

I got home and used my key to enter the house. I went to my bedroom and saw my wife and her step brother in bed wrapped in each other’s hands!….I was flabbergasted!….They were sound asleep. But in my shock,I said: What da fuck!..that woke my wife. They both were startled to see me. Before I could ask what was going on,Oyin said : arh,Uncle welcome,aunty had a night mare and I came to help her sleep. He said he didnt know when he too fell asleep. Since they were both dressed although,Oyin had his boxers and singlet on,I was really confused. When I said,both of you were having s*x in my bed,my wife burst out laughing. Of course both of them denied having s*x. They claimed my wife couldnt sleep,so Oyin came to help her sleep.

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Even though I didnt like their explanation,it seemed to check out. My wife was also dressed in her nightie but in my head,what if they finished and dressed up..some people do it…

Since the incident,I have told my wife I dont want her brother around again. She says I am over reacting considering that I already know how close she is to her step brother. I really dont know if I am over reacting but my gut tells me that this boy is up to no good. I also feel strongly that they have slept together but I dont have any solid proof.

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If the above happened to you what would you do? Would you believe my wife or would you think they already had s*x? Please share your thoughts with me?

 

Andrew,

Rumokoro

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4 COMMENTS

  1. I will not believe either of you. The bible said flee from all appearance of evil. To save your home and suspicious of any kind, you need to draw a line. Whatever relationship they both had that us all ed closed stopped from the day she got married. Even identical twin know when to draw a line.

  2. Hello Andrew,

    I will not jump into conclusions too but what I would advice is,the relationship between your wife and her step brother has to be redefined!

    They may not be doing anything bad but their body language is all wrong.

    They also crossed a line by sleeping with each other in your bedroom

    The guy needs to respect that your wife is no longer his sister as before,she is someone’s wife…and if what they do makes you uncomfortable,it has to stop

    Your wife should actually know better…maybe the guy has a crush on her sef….its just a thin line: they may or may not be having an affair…

    Which ever is the case..this sisterly and brotherly love and closeness has to be redefined asap!

    All the best.

  3. Pls the wife should better behave herself… She married now and all those tie with her so called step bruh had stop… The husband is not over reacting. He should maintain his stand that the step brother should stop visiting again and if the wife respects her husband and cherish the marriage, she would obey him if not the man should give her the option of staying with him or going with her step brother. Shikenah

  4. I will not believe either of you. The bible says flee from all appearance of evil. To save your home and suspicious of any kind, you need to draw a line. Whatever relationship they both had that is called closed stopped from the day she got married. Even identical twin know when to draw a line.

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