Good afternoon lively Stone,
Hide my identity. I have been dating Dotun (not real name) for almost three years. He always promised to marry me before the end of each year but he eventually he will come up with excuses why he cannot marry me. He always plead with me to be patient and wait.
I am not getting any younger and this thing is bothering me. So in May,I traveled to the village and I told my mother what is happening and she said we will go and see my auntie that is a prophetess so she will pray for me. I used to think my auntie was a weird prophetess. I even feared she was fetish one time so I really did not like going to see her.
But my mother made me go and see her. While we were there,My auntie saw vision that there is another woman trying to take Dotun away from me. She said I can confirm it and so I came back to Ibadan and confronted Dotun.
Dotun denied it but I took his phone which I usually don’t do and I went through his messages and found out that he and one Funke are lovers. I cried and cried. Dotun was just looking at me,not even trying to comfort me. The next thing he says is,now that you know,no need to pretend anymore. That he loves this Funke girl and she is the one he will marry.
I couldn’t take it anymore. I went home again. My heart was broken. My mother took me to my auntie again. She promised to help me. She made some prayers and some spiritual things. She then rubbed my eyes with a red substance and told me to go and claim my husband. I never used to believe in such things but my heart was heavy and I was willing to do anything.
When I got to my base in Ibadan. I went to see Dotun.As soon as he saw me,even though the Funke girl was there,he quickly went on his knees and started to beg me. He begged me for my forgiveness and that Funke girl could not believe her eyes. even me,I could not believe my eyes.
To cut the long story short,Dotun has broken up with that girl and now is fully committed to me. The girl kept fighting and trying but Dotun threw her out.Our wedding introduction was last week. Our wedding is in November. I got my man back. I am very happy. Dotun is like a slave to me now. Anything I want,he agrees. He gives me. He loves me.
And that is my worry. My worry is,I do not know if it is the spiritual thing my auntie did that is making him love me this way or what? Or,is it that his real eyes have been opened ? Cos,before this girl came into the picture,he truly loved me. So,I don’t know if actually this girl used jazz and my auntie’s prayer defeated it …
What if is the other way round…maybe my auntie charmed him for me…and that thing clears off from his eyes one day,will he still love me?My auntie says he is mine forever. That it is our destiny to be married. That she did not use jazz but spiritual prayers to get Dotun.
Even though I am happy now,I cannot lie to say I am not afraid of the future…please advise me.
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