I am extremely angry and I don’t know who to talk to. I have been married for almost eight years and I love my husband. He is a good man. But only one problem I have with him. My husband does not like to apologize for anything that he does to make me angry or anything he does that is wrong. He can make a mistake like for example,he can shout at me when he is angry abut something. When I tell him that I don’t like him shouting at me,he will just keep quiet and act like nothing happened. This has been going on for years. I know he loves me but why cant he apologize to me when he offends me.
Honestly,I feel he does not regard my feelings or emotions when he behaves like that. I have been trying to ignore him and not expect any apology from him no matter what he does but I wont lie,I get really hurt and I feel like not talking to him for days but I don’t want to keep malice with him so I try to talk to him even though I am not happy.
Sometimes,I try to also talk to him about how I feel,then he will say,me too I don’t use to apologize to him when I am wrong. But ma,that is not true. I apologize but the issue is,I am not the one always wrong. he want me to apologize even though I am not wrong. He is the one that is always wrong. I am not saying I am a saint but I am a very reasonable person,I always put other peoples’ feelings before my own and I know that always comes to bite me.
I know he is not a very romantic man when I married him but I just want him to stop ignoring my feelings. Please what do I do? Do I accept him the way he is or how can I make him understand that he is hurting my feelings?
From Mrs X,