Please keep my identity private. My Wife is a selfish woman. I say that because she knows that I like sx alot and she is tactically denying me most times. Its either she is too tired or she complains that I need to take my bath before sx. When I try to go and take my bath,before I come back,she falls asleep.
I also like to explore during intercourse but she does not make me happy. I go down on her which she enjoys alot but she wont go down on me which I find very selfish.
We have been married for four years and I feel so happy I find a platform like yours that I can pour out my heart. I have been living in a selfish marriage for the past four years. I just keep quiet for peace sake but the truth is I am not happy about this.
Is marriage not supposed to be about compromise? If I do things to make her happy,why cant she do the same for me. She may not like it but will it kill her if she does that just to please me once in a while?
I think you as a woman should talk to other women,let them know that their husbands are human beings with feelings. Mine is hurting my feelings and I dont appreciate her anymore. I love her but her selfishness is making me dislike her. She knows I wont cheat on her and that is very selfish.
Please share this,I am looking forward to your response and the responses of other married people on this matter.