Please advise me. My friend is cheating on his new wife and I am not happy about it at all. My friend and his beautiful wife got married last October. They dated for almost three years before they got married and she is such a sweet soul. If you see this lady,she is like the most beautiful woman,has got very nice and s*xy features. She was even a pageant contestant one time.
Honestly,I have no idea why this guy is doing this…I truly feel he does not deserve her and I am at my wits end. It was shortly after they got married last year. We were at the club. His wife was even there with us. After a while,this dude said he was going to take a call,that an important client was calling. He couldn’t hear properly because of the noise in the club so he went to his car.
I went out for some fresh air and saw this dude with a club girl. They had his pants down and this girl was getting down on him. I felt bad. It was so quick,he got back to the club in about 10mins later. I confronted him privately and he said I was tipsy,that I did not see him. The second time I witnessed this was at a friend’s party this new year. The party was in this guy’s home in Lekki. My guy was alone this time. I saw him coming out of one of the rooms in the house after a girl who was scantily dressed came out.
Now my worry is,I have been friends with this guy for years now. I never known him to be a womanizer. I have no idea why he is acting this way. He was with his wife for three years before marriage,there was no issue of cheating. I had to confront him again and told him that it was wrong and he said he is sorry but he has desires that his wife cannot satisfy. He likes getting had and his wife tries her best but he seems not to be getting enough …He says that its not cheating since its not full blown sx but just getting a h*ad from other women.
I disagree with him and told him he needed to speak to someone to get help and he refused. I know this is still going on and one day,the wife might find out. I do not know how she will react but I would like suggestions for my friend. Is it possible that his libido is overly higher than his wife’s? Is also getting a h*ad not cheating? What can I tell him to do to curb this irresponsible behavior?
From T. J