Good morning madam,
I have an issue and ask for your counseling please. I’m really not lucky in terms of relationships I’m 24 years old. I have been single for a while now until this guy came to me in the month of June for us to date.
Initially I wasn’t interested but my instincts told me to give it a try. The first month was something else he hardly calls me calming his always busy because his a medical doctor I didn’t complain I just kept my cool and also stopped checking up on him.
We could go a week without calls unless of cause we just hi on what app. This has been going on for almost three months and this is exactly how the relationship has been he hardly has time for me and has never given me money even when I visit him.
The little time he gets with me he wants to be intimate with me at a point I started turning him down I didn’t value him anymore since he was acting as if I was not worth him, then one day I told him I wanted to see him but he ignored me until his own time before showing up.
And this time too he wanted sex and I said no and he got angry but I didn’t just care . This time around he came back claiming he wants to make things right and I didn’t have time for him and he went ahead and asked for a break up which I told him it was never gonna happened.
I told him I’m glad he felt the way I felt when he didn’t have time for me and made me feel I didn’t deserve him since then he said sorry and that we should continue dating but how does a relationship survive without proper communication??
Should I just end things with him and be free and and single again or what should I do. He knows very well I just completely my national service but since have never given me a dime before.
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