My kid brother is dating this particular lady and intends getting married to her. She is smart and very kind. The challenge here is the lady has lots of insecurity issues. She claims she is afraid of his past life ( specifically ladies once he dated) and doesn’t want any confrontation from his past.
She likes him but keeps stating her fears and thus hindering the relationship from moving forward.
My brother cares about her but is also at his wit end… He has done all he knows to make her feel secured but all appears to be failing…
- He has told her about his past and is even scared of talking more about it cos it increases her insecurity.
- He had told us his family about her to make her know he is serious and cares about her
- She often misinterprets or misunderstands most of what he says to which often has to make detailed explanation to clear the misunderstanding
I told him I was going to ask LS family… Please What else can he do? Cos the young man appears to be into her a lot.