I started reading articles from this blog a few months ago. I must say you guys are doing a good job. I actually want to comment on a few stories that I read on this bog cos it has something to do with me.
I read about spiritual husband or spiritual wife here.And that is when someone is experiencing delay in marriage or having s*x in the dream. I like the way you responded to those situations.
My situation is this:I have been married for almost 8 years. I have four kids. And I have been having sx in my dreams for over 10 years. So, the question is:why do people think or say if you are not married for long or you are having sx in your dream ,that means you have a spiritual husband?
I am married. Successfully married. I have children….so do I have a spiritual wife because I see me having sx in my dreams?…what I see is that I love sx. I love sx very much. I am a very sxually active man and my wife knows that.
There are wet dreams men have because of their unresolved sxual tension or desire. I think of sx all the time so I am not surprised when I see myself having s*x in my dreams. It can be embarrassing to say but that is my experience.
The women that I have sx with in my dreams,some are strangers whom I have never met. Some are like people from my past. I think its a figment of my fantasy. Everyone has sxual fantasy. If we are being honest. Mine is having s*x with multiple women and I get to fufill that fantasy in my dreams.
In most sxual fantasies, the person is able to achieve a sxual height of pleasure that one may not normally experience with a real partner. I experience my greatest s*xual heights and pleasure in my dreams.
And that even helps as it helps me not to put pressure on my wife to achieve pleasure..like I said…I love sx and I am very sxually active….it also helps me not to cheat…abi,its not with a real person na..can one be cheating in the dream?
I love your blog but I want us to have honest and adult conversations about this please. I am hoping to get other peoples’ view on my own situation. I am married and I have kids… and I love having s*x dreams.
Do you think I am having sx with my spiritual wives or is this me having a thrill with my sxual fantasies?
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