I am a young man of 27 years. I have been dating this girl for like 4 months and I really like her. She is someone I see me settling down with in the future. By this time last year I was in another relationship but it ended badly and I was hurt.
That is why I need advice. Last year,I was with a lady and it was around valentine and I told her that I do not celebrate valentine cos of my religious beliefs. I told her that I don’t believe in celebrating someone you love just one day in a year.
So,valentine came and I did nothing. She broke up with me that night of valentine’s day. She said its not about the gift buying on valentine’s day but the fact that I choose not to celebrate lovers day. She complained that all her friends got gifts except her. That she does not think I will be romantic if we got married..
She was referring to a fear that I may not be a romantic type of guy. I am romantic,I try to be but she did not get it. When she left,I was heartbroken for a while. Until this my current girlfriend came along.
Another valentine is coming. I do not want to loose my current girl. Even though I do not believe in celebrating valentine,should I just buy her gifts on that day so she wont think I am unromantic ?
She is already giving me hints about her expectation from me for Valentine…Please advise me… what should I do?