Could This Be A Sign That My Girlfriend Is Cheating?

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This a question from someone on Telegram. Please share your thoughts,how would you advise him? Kindly drop your comments below.

I am in a new relationship ma. Someone I met five months ago. She said she was not into casual dating and was looking for something that would lead to marriage. I liked that. I also would like to settle down before the end of next year. So far,she said no s*x and I respect that too.

This lady is 29 years old,has a good career,makes good money and has her own house and car.She is quite attractive and I consider myself quite fortunate that she is mine. Everything has been going well but sometimes,she travels for business. She is a top executive and is required to travel around quite often.

I was at her place last weekend to see her. I noticed that her car was quite dirty so I offered to clean it. She told me not to worry but I just wanted to do something nice for her so I insisted. While cleaning the glove compartment,I saw  a pack of condoms,it was open meaning that a few must have been taken out of it.


This made me curious. I did not mean to pry but I found it anyway. So,when I brought it up to her,she said it had been there for more than a year.That she even forgot it was there. She said her last relationship ended badly and so she decided no more s*x until marriage.

I took her explanation but somehow at the back of my mind,I do not really think she is being truthful. For someone of her caliber, she is too detailed and meticulous to forget a used pack of condom in her car for over a year. I do not want to start whipping up something where there is none but who else believes her story?

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Personally,I do not believe her and this is giving me cause to start thinking that she is not being truthful to me…what do you think…should I break off the relationship before it goes to far?



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  1. Hello Olugbenga,

    Well,you cannot tell by just seeing a pack of condoms that she is cheating…I think you need more time to decide that. What I would suggest is that you monitor her closely. If she is cheating,you would be able to pick up the signals.

    In the meantime,just be calm…because if you start making an issue about it…she may just be telling the truth and it would hurt her to know that you do not trust her.

    Also pray about it..let God guide you.

  2. If that is the only reason why you now suspect her, then check yourself, you might just be insecure.
    From what you wrote, I don’t see any reason why you should be suspecting she is cheating on you.
    Please check yourself very well and be sure you are insecure, cause if you are insecure, you will suspect her every move and that will destroy your relationship faster.

  3. Hi Olugbenga,

    Your discovery is a cause of concern but your fiancé may be innocent so it’s best not to show any more suspicion as it will hurt her deeply and can ruin your relationship if she is innocent so be prayerful.

    If you continually commit everything to God and seek Him, if there is more to this, it will slip out and you’ld know ….Then be watchful.

    All the best


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