Well,inspite of all these drama,my boyfriend proposed to me and we got married traditionally almost two years later.
I told my husband,he encouraged me to call that lady that is the man's sister that I connected both of them through. I called this lady and she said she is not aware that my friend cut me off.
he said its a sin and a sign of waywardness. I told him its a matter of hygiene but he said,regular washing up is fine for that. I thought he was just kidding but anytime I shaved,he would get angry
He wasn't bad, just philandering. I sometimes think of going back but then I won't be happy. He even dated my neighbor and a distance friend.Well we broke up even though he begged for forgiveness for over a year.
I asked him what..he said,ah...my brother (that is,my husband) is very lucky o. That if not that I am his brother's wife,he would have married me.
I took the condom and waited for my husband to return. I asked him as calmly as I could...he seemed quite surprised. He asked me what is that and where did I get that from.
I can’t trust my husband anymore.He still chats with this lady .The lady does not know I have found out about them.I asked my husband to let me be away for some time to see if I can heal.
She was in love with me too but she got ashamed of me when we went out. I met her family,her mother,a single mom show had her when she was 18 and her younger brother she had with a man that left her.
She said my brother started accusing her of having abortions before marriage and that was causing her barrenness.She has had two abortions before she met my brother,
.I thought wedding and wedding planning is the woman's job? The only thing I was allowed to do is pick out my dress....every other thing he says he has it covered cos he does not want any information about our wedding to leak.
he doesn't talk to another,not even me,he came back to our base without talking to me,for days now I have been in this house with him but we don't even look at each other talk more of talking.
I asked him to see my parents and begin the traditional wedding rites first. He agreed. The weekend he went to see my parents,my ex showed up at my place,all begging and crying
I have been sad many nights and days. I have tried to stay sane and positive but I think my marriage is over. My husband does not care