I made up my mind to move on from ken. I met ken eight years ago. He was my MD at the time and I was serving as a youth Corper in the Company. He took interest in and we dated throughout my service year. I knew Ken was married but as a Corper then,I was just happy to have a guy take care of me. I was not looking for anything serious. My plan was to get rid of him after service year.
Somehow,we were very strong and in love with each other. Ken got me an apartment in one of the choice areas in Abuja. He placed me on a monthly income of one million naira. I couldnt have resisted.
As God would have it,I got pregnant the month of my passing out. Ken made me keep the pregnancy. He had promised to divorce his wife as he was no longer i love with her. He begged me to give him a year to sort things out.
I believed him and stayed. Our son came in 2014. Ken has been a very adorable father,lover and provider. But this is 2017 wrapping up and he is still with his wife.
I know I may be seen as a homewrecker and I have told Ken that I want out. If after almost four years,he is still with his wife,then I need to move on.
The only problem is that ken has blatantly refused to allow me go. He says the will take my son if I leave. He keeps telling me to be patient that he will divorce his wife eventually but I am tired of waiting.
My younger sister got married last year and is very proud to show the world her husband. I cannot show off Ken as he is not mine yet. My parents feel I am still young ,too young to be a mistress. They want me to be married,so they have asked me to move on.
I met someone who is interested in me. He is a young man of 32,just two years older than myself. Ken got to find out and is threatening him to stay off. I am so upset with Ken. He is yet to fufill his promise of marrying me yet he wants to drive anyone who wants me.
This is unfair. what do I do. My mother wants me to inform Ken’s wife so that she will be aware that Ken has been cheating with me. She believes that Ken still loves his wife,,maybe bringing the wife into the picture will make Ken afraid and let me go. But I am also afraid of what Ken would do if we do that.Ken is a very powerful man in Abuja,even all over the country.
Please,no insults. I didnt plan to be in this situation. Moreover,I am looking for a way to right any wrong my actions may have caused. I just need guidance on the best way to get out of this mess.